The idea of Hanging out vs. Dating is a new idea to me.   I mean i guess i always knew about it but i never really categorized it nor saw the importance of dating.  But it totally makes sense, i mean how can you honestly get to know someone when all you know is how they act in a group setting?
   I also liked how Brother Williams said that  "there is no shortcut to getting to know someone."  that statement is so true.  I've jsut learned that it takes straight up time and good listenting.  Trust and a comfort of someones presence cant be bought you gotta build it up.  I gues you just have to fulfill the know quo of time togetherness and talk ( with mutual self disclosure)